The
lines in May Sarton’s poem, Innumerable Friend, express
the essential philosophy behind the Mentoring Partnerships
Program that has been operated by the Women’s Center
at Florida International University for the past six years.
The center is dedicated to providing a personalized learning
experience that promotes the academic and professional success
of FIU students.
| THE
MENTORING PARTNERSHIPS PROGRAM BUILDS CONNECTIONS ACROSS
RACIAL AND CULTURAL BOUNDARIES, FOSTERS A SENSE OF BELONGING,
AND CREATES A COMMUNITY AMONG PARTICIPANTS, FUNCTIONS
THAT ARE PARTICULARLY VALUABLE AT A LARGE UNIVERSITY. |
The Mentoring
Partnerships Program builds connections across racial and
cultural boundaries, fosters a sense of belonging, and creates
a community among participants, functions that are particularly
valuable at a large university. As diverse as we are as an
institution, we often do not consciously reach out to others
of a difference race or culture. In the mentoring program,
when students are matched with mentors that inform, advise,
and inspire them to achieve their academic and career goals,
the ‘invisible bridges’ that Sarton alludes are
created between program participants. These are bridges that
breathe life into the institutional value of diversity. Mentoring
is a meaningful way to promote diversity and enhance abilities
to assess cultures and to understand and value difference.
Mentor
in Greek mythology acted as a surrogate father to Telemachus,
the son of Odysseus, when Odysseus was off conquering Troy
and making his epic journey back to the Greek isles. Mentor
guided, educated, and protected Telemachus, introduced him
to other leaders, and prepared him for adulthood. When the
goddess Athena wanted to advise Telemachus, she took the form
of Mentor and thereby imbued Mentor with her divine qualities.
The current
group of mentors draws inspiration from this ancient classical
model. FIU’s mentors are drawn from a range of cultural
backgrounds and professional or academic fields, but they
all possess advanced work and life experience so that they
can instruct, counsel, guide, and facilitate social, intellectual,
and career development among their equally diverse student
protégés. Recruited from the Division of Student
Affairs staff, the FIU Alumni Association, and the academic
faculty, the mentors work with students in one-to-one relationships
and also join in group networking activities and workshops
to build a group identity and to share resources.
Gayle
Bainbridge, past president of the FIU Alumni Association,
Irma de Alonso, professor in the Department of Economics and
Fellow of The Honors College, Marilyn Montgomery, associate
professor in the Psychology Department, Beverly Dalrymple,
director of the Center for Leadership Development and Civic
Responsibility, and Lynda Raheem, assistant dean of the College
of Business Administration, are representative of the accomplished
and dedicated pool of mentors that volunteer their time and
attention to student protégés year after year.
Outstanding
mentors contribute to the success of the program, but there
are several other components contributing to its success.
The Women’s Center has also cultivated a ‘mentoring
partnership’ with the Office of Alumni Relations for
the past several years that has sponsored group events and
recruited FIU alumni. Students who take the initiative in
seeking out their mentor’s advice and friendship are
rarely disappointed. The development of a mentoring relationship
is a gradual and progressive process that depends on multiple
meetings for the level of trust and the quality of communication
between mentor and protégé to deepen. Students
are encouraged to attend the program’s group meetings,
to introduce themselves to all the program participants, and
to mentor each other. Students that seek out multiple mentors
in this way increase the likelihood of meeting someone who
matches their advising needs.
From the
interpersonal to the intergroup level, the Mentoring Partnerships
Program is designed to look out for the student participants’
best interests, developing their skills, talents, and abilities
to achieve their personal and professional goals. |